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A message from Matthew 16 November 2017

Dear Sisters and Brothers in Christ,

On Wednesday, the results from the Australian Marriage Law Postal Survey were published on the ABS website. 61 per cent of the votes were ‘Yes’ in the same-sex marriage postal vote. In the lead up to this announcement, the
Uniting Church President and the Moderators of each Synod prepared the
pastoral statement. I encourage you to read this statement (attached) and pray for wisdom, courage and discernment for the Uniting Church and the wider community throughout this season.

Here at Burnside City we are called to continue to live out the Gospel of Jesus Christ as people of faith.

And you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind, and with all your strength.’ This is the first commandment. And the second, like it, is this: ‘You shall love your neighbour as yourself.’ There is no other commandment
greater than these.”
Mark 12:30-31New King James Version (NKJV)

As we consider our path from here, I think that we must, in the interests of
wisdom and peace, acknowledge the laws of our nation and the authority of the parliament.

How we behave now is going to be a profound witness to the people in our community and the world. This is the time for the church to demonstrate the love of God for all to see. The conversations that we have in this time of change will shape the future of our church for years to come. I want us to be known as people who love passionately, for this is the message of the Gospel.

Grace and peace,

Rev Matthew Bond


A message from Gary October 1

You give them something to eat.” (Mark 6:37)

Last Saturday 24 people from Burnside City gathered for the day to continue the
process of discerning God’s loving desire for the church through the next few years. Building on information drawn from the National Church Life Survey, the Spiritual Gifts identification process, the Vision and Mission Day in August, and responses from the Sunday prayer gathering, those gathered sought to discern threads which may open us to the future direction in which God desires to take Burnside City.

It was my privilege to be asked to facilitate the day. In doing so, I structured the day around the story of the feeding of the 5,000 form Mark’s Gospel. What has that got to do with discerning the future for BCUC? Well, I think, plenty.

In the story Jesus is seeking some time away from the crowds and the pressure of
ministry for himself and the disciples. They depart by boat seeking a deserted place to be by themselves. However, it was not to be. The crowds saw where they were headed and arrived there before Jesus and the disciples. Although desiring solitude and rest, Jesus had compassion on the crowds and continued to teach them.

Late in the day the disciples suggested to Jesus that it might be time to send the crowds away to find some food. But then Jesus did an amazing thing. He put the
matter back onto the disciples: “You give them something to eat.” The disciples
immediately respond by pointing out to Jesus that they didn’t have the resources to do that. But Jesus asks them: “How many loaves have you?” Although there were only five (and two fish) they found that when you take what little you have and offer it to Jesus, amazing things can happen.

And that is what we focused on last Saturday- what are the loaves Burnside City has, what are the hungers people have and how can we bring the two together?

As the day progressed we, like the disciples, sensed the hungers were great and we wondered about our resources to respond to them. We recognized that we cannot address all the hungers people have, but we have been blessed with some amazing resources in people, facilities, finances and more, and that when given to Jesus many can be fed.

What are the loaves you bring to be used to feed people? What are the hungers that we see in people? And how can what God has blessed us with at BCUC be used to
satisfy the many hungers people have?

Gary Stuckey (Rev)


A message from Matthew September 24

On my desk recently was this little cameo of a couple celebrating their 40th wedding anniversary.   As they held hands across the table a little ‘Tinkerbell’ like creature
appeared and said…”I have been sent to give you the desire of your heart’.. 
Immediately the wife said….’My desire is to travel the world’…. and ‘zap’ there were 2 around the world cruise tickets in her hand. The husband thinking this may be his one and only opportunity to get the desire of his heart, thought long and hard, and then turning to his wife, he said ‘You may not like what I have to say, but my desire is to be married to someone 30 years younger than me’….and ‘zap’, he was a 92 year old man.

We may laugh, and make jokes about married love, but being happily married is the desire of the heart for most of us. Remembering this message comes from the
Christian Ministers Association, and focuses on a culture  founded on the love of God, may I encourage us to be thoughtful, prayerful about this  ‘SEASON OF THE
PLEBISCITE’, What is it we are really asked to vote upon?

The Word of God in Ephesians 5 speaks about the Christian life, and Christian
marriage.   St Paul personally addresses husbands and wives about a love that is
eternal, personal and abundant. A love that the Greeks call AGAPE LOVE, God’s
divine, healing, forgiving love that permeates all our love relationships, it flows through to our EROS LOVE, married love, and to our PHILIA LOVE, brotherly, family community love….

It is a love that is gift love through faith in our Lord Jesus Christ. This AGAPE love, can be new every morning, just for the asking, because of the gift of God’s Holy Spirit to all people.   When I think about my family, my children and grandchildren, and future children yet to come, my thoughts, my desire is that they may be happy, fulfilled, loved and loving.   That they may know the power, the presence and the peace of AGAPE LOVE, not only know it but share it in every relationship that they
encounter……and that they may be aware of God’s love in every possible adventure and commitment they experience…..

I feel that we are about to make history because of this plebiscite, and I am reminded that the Nobel Peace Prize winner of l964 MARTIN LUTHER KING JR. famously said… “We are not makers of history. We are made by history.” King challenged many laws dealing with equality.   His life and love for God changed the nation of the USA, and shaped the progressive world we live in today.

May I leave you with this very memorable quote of MARTIN LUTHER KING JR….

‘I HAVE HAD MANY THINGS IN MY HAND AND I HAVE LOST THEM ALL, BUT WHATEVER I PLACED IN GOD’S HANDS THAT I STILL POSSESS’.   May we be wise and place  this important Plebiscite season in the hands of our God, may our decision making and voting choices bring honour and glory to our Creator and Redeemer.

(Reprinted from the “Norfolk Islander” local newspaper with permission)


A message from Matthew September 17

“Where there is no vision, the people perish”
(Proverbs 29:18a KJV)

These are dramatic words.

They are words that get my attention.

They are ancient words of wisdom from the scriptures.

On Saturday September 23rd the people of Burnside City Uniting Church are invited to gather for a Vision and Mission Retreat Workshop. This will begin at 10am and will include lunch. Please provide an ‘expression of interest’ to the Church Council
Secretary, Gill Cibich by Thursday 21st of September for catering and preparation
purposes. We will conclude the day at 4pm.

Over recent months we have all participated in the “Gifts of the Spirit” series and have learned that we all have Spiritual Gifts that are to be used in the service of God through our church.

Last year we filled in the National Church Life Survey and these results are now
available for us to better understand our church and the situation for all churches in Australia.

We have valuable ideas from the Vision and Mission afternoon held here on the 20th of August.

Many people have been praying regularly and seeking to hear from God about what God has planned for our church in the future.

From this information we will be asked on September 23 as Gary Stuckey leads us in this retreat workshop to discern where God is leading us as a church community.

We have gathered a lot of information and we will respect the privacy of the people who have shared from their hearts.

This is another step along the way as we faithfully seek to be the church that God has called us to be.

Please make every effort to be here on the 23rd of September.

God bless,



A message from Gary September 10

Resolving our differences


The theme for services at BCUC during September is “Relationships.” That is hardly surprising. The pages of the Bible often address the relationships amongst the people of God and exhort us to engage in supportive, encouraging and loving
relationships. The way we relate to and with one another is a part of our witness to those around us.


However, we know that even in the best relationships differences and conflict will arise. And so it sometimes is in the life of the church. There will be times when those alongside whom we work and worship in Christian community will see things
differently from the way we do. Sometimes these will be small differences, easily
resolved. On other occasions the differences will be over more substantial matters.


I’ve heard it said on occasions, as I’m sure you have, that as a Christian community we shouldn’t experience differences, let alone conflict. A common criticism of churches is, “Look, they can’t even get on together.” But this misses the point.


The text from Matthew’s Gospel this morning is about resolving conflicts that arose within the church. That Matthew even wrote about this at least shows us that this is nothing new! There have always been differences when people get together, even as the church. When you look around at those with whom we are in Christian community and consider how different we are, sometimes it is surprising that we can agree on anything at all.


As Jesus addresses the matter of handling differences, he starts by assuming that they will arise. What makes the difference is not whether or not we fight or disagree or wound one another, but how we go about addressing these issues. We are not to yell, slander, gossip about or humiliate those with whom we disagree, but neither are we to pretend that conflict does not exist. The invitation is to seek reconciliation, and Jesus provides a way to move in that direction. Firstly, we go to the one with whom we
disagree privately. If that fails, involve one or two wise, trusted people to help towards reconciliation. If the matter is still not resolved, it is then given a public airing in the church. But always the aim and desire is for reconciliation.


Could we do any less when we worship a God who is reconciling all things to himself?




A message from Matthew September 3

 This is the latest statement on Marriage from the President of the Uniting Church
released on 28 August, 2017. I believe it is helpful for members of Burnside City
Uniting Church to hear these words.

The Marriage Law Postal Survey and Respectful Conversations

The Australian Government has announced the process it will follow for the Australian Marriage Law Postal Survey.

Survey forms will be mailed out to all eligible voters from 12 September with voters asked to return the completed survey by 6pm on 27 October 2017.

Full details of the process are available on the Australian Bureau of Statistics website.

As explained previously, the Uniting Church is conducting its own longstanding
independent discernment on marriage and we will not be recommending any position to UCA members in the Australian Marriage Law Postal Survey.

(The Uniting Church in Australia currently understands marriage as ‘the freely given consent and commitment in public and before God of a man and a woman to live
together for life’.)

I would however take this opportunity to again remind members of the need for
respectful conversations on the issue of same-gender marriage. As the public debate intensifies, we must redouble our efforts to choose our words carefully, including when we speak of our sisters and brothers in Christ. For those who feel the need to share their views, pointed criticism of other Christians lacks grace and falls short of our
stated ecumenical values. In Paragraph 2 of the Basis of Union we state our belief that Christians in Australia are called to bear witness to a unity of faith and life in Christ which transcends cultural and economic, national and racial boundaries. We may
disagree with each other on any number of issues as Christians, but as Paul said in
Romans 12:5 “We belong to one another”. So please speak with love.

The Uniting Church’s official definition of marriage is between a man and a woman. Also we are committed to being an inclusive Church that embraces LGBTIQ people as full members and to culturally appropriate discussion about relationships and
marriage across our diversity. Public speculation on how the Uniting Church might respond to a change in the Marriage Act is unhelpful, and distracts focus on our own discernment. Under the Marriage Act, ministers of religion cannot legally solemnise a marriage without an approved liturgy. Whatever the outcome of the postal survey and any subsequent changes to the Act, our Church’s position on marriage will remain the same until such a time as our national Council, the Assembly, decides otherwise and approves an appropriate liturgy. This is not a matter in which individual Uniting Church congregations can act unilaterally. I would like to acknowledge that this national
conversation is difficult and painful for many. If in the course of the public debate you experience sadness or distress and you need help, please seek support.

Stuart McMillan

President, Uniting Church Australia


A message from Matthew August 27

Who is Jesus Christ?     

UNLIKE the question “Does God exist?” very few
people question whether Jesus Christ existed. It is generally accepted that Jesus was truly a man who walked on the earth in Israel 2000 years ago. The debate begins when the subject of Jesus’ full identity is discussed. Almost every
major religion teaches that Jesus was a prophet or a good teacher or a godly man. The problem is that the Bible tells us that Jesus was infinitely more than a prophet, a good teacher, or a godly man.

C.S. Lewis in his book Mere Christianity writes the following: “I am trying here to prevent anyone from saying the really foolish thing that people often say about Him [Jesus Christ]: ‘I’m ready to accept Jesus as a great moral teacher, but I don’t accept his claim to be God.’ That is the one thing we must not say. A man who was merely a man and said the sort of things Jesus said would not be a great moral teacher. He would either be a lunatic—on a level with a man who says he is a poached egg—or else he would be the Devil of hell. You must make your choice. Either this man was, and is, the Son of God, or else a madman or something worse. You can shut him up for fool, you can spit at him and kill him as a demon; or you can fall at his feet and call him Lord and God. But let us not come up with any patronizing nonsense about his being a great human teacher. He has not left that option open to us. He did not intend to.”

16 For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. 17 For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved.
John 3:16-17 (NIV)


A message from Matthew 20 August 2017

I received this delightful email from Sharonne Price on behalf of the Working Group for the Transforming Worship Conference that I wanted to share with you.

Dear faithful volunteers,

I write to thank you on behalf of the Assembly Worship Working Group for the fabulous contribution you all made to the success of the conference. Many things that are
worthwhile are driven by volunteers, and as we know, even those who receive payment of some kind volunteer hour and hours of time, energy and financial resources to the life of the church. I know that not a single person who volunteered is a novice in  the art of giving. Thank you for offering us all your grace and energy, skills and knowledge for the conference.

I hope and trust that everyone has recovered from the demanding (and inspiring) few days that have already become a sentinel experience of welcome, community, worship, wonder and learning for  those who joined us. All of you worked very hard whether it was serving food, washing dishes, mastering the coffee urn, solving problems, washing floors, disposing of rubbish, helping with the reception desk, monitoring the state of the
bathrooms, setting up, re-organising …and yes, smiling through it all. The feedback has been very positive indeed.

Thank you too for the way you were prepared to “muck in” with a new team and with people you did not know well. It certainly proved that our wider Uniting Church family is recognisable as having a distinctive service orientation. We made a happy community together.

Special thanks go to the Burnside City folk. You shared your fabulous property and all your resources with willing and open hearts. You allowed others to make their way in your kitchen – not an easy thing to do – and you let people like me make their  own
mistakes. Thank you!

Christine Secombe is in the USA at the moment, but she joins me in thanking you all from the bottom of our hearts.

 May your ongoing ministries of service be richly blessed,


Sharonne Price


A message from Matthew August 13 2017

Burnside Inter-Church Council receives Sustainability Award

Last night at a Schools Ministry Group (SMG) Community Event the Burnside Inter-Church Council was presented with a Sustainability Award for the
support they provide to schools in their local community. For many years they have raised funds to support SMG’s Chaplaincy and wellbeing services at Burnside Primary School, Glenunga
International High School,
Marryatville High School and Marden Secondary College.

The award recognised the initiatives undertaken by the group to actively fundraise through new ideas, events, activities, initiatives and partnerships, and to have strategies in place to maintain these
important services to students, families and school staff into the future. Recent
fundraising events have included fairs, talent shows and quiz nights.

Steph Agnew, Pastoral Care Worker at Glenunga International High School has been greatly encouraged and supported by the group “I nominated the Burnside Inter Church Council because they are really proactive with their support. Their priority is the students in the schools and having us there as carers and people to help when it is needed.”

Angela Jolly, Executive Director of Schools Ministry Group said “Today SMG
provides over 340 schools across South Australia with a Chaplaincy Service, it
continues to offer seminars and interactive workshops for primary and high school students, and contributes to the positive wellbeing of children with its Community Services. We do this in partnership with local community groups like the Burnside Inter-Church Council who also help in their local schools with breakfast clubs, lunchtime activities, mentoring and many other activities and programs.”

SMG Ambassador Brenton Ragless and SMG Executive Director Angela Jolly
presented Burnside Inter-Church Council representatives Malcolm Lake and Rex King with the SMG Sustainability Award.


A message from Linda 6 August 2017

Why on earth would we take on such a big event as Transforming Worship,
disrupting our Sunday and impacting so many people?

Through the Transforming Worship Conference, members of Burnside City Uniting Church were exposed to new ideas in relation to worship, new styles of worship and ways of worshipping, by internationally renowned teachers and preachers, wonderful leaders in this area of worship.

We volunteered and served in teams which involved meeting new people trying new things discovering new skills making new friends, or reacquainting with old ones and discovering that we can do brewed coffee and it’s really nice!

Our building and facilities were used for what they were designed to do – to be able to resource and equip the people of God to be able to worship God

Burnside City Uniting Church now has a reputation nationally of a church who makes people welcome in generous ways

We have been able to resolve some issues that have been challenging us for quite some time for example:

The air conditioning in the auditorium has gone from being quite problematic to resolved! 

We have developed much clearer, applicable  procedures for emergency
evacuation.  We have developed great confidence in what we would do in an
emergency these do need some further work but we have made big progress in this area because of the conference.

This of course was not our conference it was organised by the Uniting Church
Assembly’s National worship working group. It was our role to act as host, to
provide the facilities, to make people feel welcome, to manage our car park and to help resolve issues with the facilities. Members of Burnside City Uniting Church went above and beyond in giving their time and effort and working really hard to be able to ensure that every detail was attended to. There were so many who,
quietly behind the scenes, attended to many details that I won’t even know about. Thank you to the many, many, many volunteers who helped in so many different ways. 

Was it all worth it? I think so and I hope others agree.

Praise God for this opportunity!